Dating

I WANT TO BE WITH MY BOYFRIEND ALL THE TIME – IS IT BAD? You’ve been with your boyfriend and it’s dawned on you that “I want to be with my boyfriend all the time”. You’re wondering if this is normal or should you be concerned.  And why are you feeling this way? So many […]

my boyfriend hasn’t proposed after 5 years – what do i do? So you’re in a relationship and you’ve realized that your boyfriend hasn’t proposed after 5 years.  My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and 4 of those years have been long-distance.  Because we got together when we were young, we

My Boyfriend, Hasn’t Said I Love You In 9 Months – What To Do?  “Three words, eight letters. Say it, and I’m yours” If you grew up watching Gossip Girl, you’d understand the chokehold that this sentence had on me! In the show, Blair Waldorf had given Chuck Bass the ultimatum. Tell me you love

My Boyfriend Hasn’t Texted Me All Day – HELP! The day’s almost over and it’s hit you – “my boyfriend hasn’t texted me all day”. I’m guessing you find this unusual because he would minimally drop you a text message in the morning.  When this happened to me, I immediately assumed the worst. I thought

So you’re in a relationship and it’s hit you that “My girlfriend won’t tell her parents about me”. In this scenario, context matters.  If you’ve only just started dating (i.e. you’ve been going out on several dates and just made it official), then I feel it would be too soon to tell and meet the parents. 

There comes a point in your relationship when you realize, “My girlfriend doesn’t text me like she used to”. Normally, this might seem trivial but it could indicate a negative shift in the relationship.  Being a naturally anxious person, I used to assume the worst when my boyfriend didn’t text me like he normally would.

There comes a point in every relationship when you realize, “My girlfriend stopped asking me about my day”. I was called out by my partner before when I stopped asking about his day. I didn’t think it was a big deal but he explained to me that it felt as if I didn’t care about

You’re having a conversation with your girlfriend when it suddenly hits you “My girlfriend keeps talking about her ex”. She mentions him when you walk past a restaurant, at random times of the day, and when you’re on a date.  It’s fine if she drops his name occasionally but the name-dropping is persistent and it’s

So, you’ve found yourself in a situation where “My girlfriend chooses friends over me”. Coincidentally, my boyfriend and I had a debate about this when we first started dating. He said I was prioritizing spending time with them over him and I immediately got defensive. After several conversations and reflection, I realized there was some

So, you’ve found out that “my girlfriend is talking to another guy behind my back”. It’s not an ideal situation to be in. You must be feeling confused and angry. Your feelings right now are valid. The next step is to figure out how to respond and navigate this situation. Read further down as I